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The Defining Decade vs Grit: Which Should You Actually Read?

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Both books live on the same shelf: Psychology & People. Both are free to read here, in full, right now. The Defining Decade (2012, Meg Jay) argues: Eighty percent of life's most significant moments happen by 35. The twenties are not a waiting room:… Grit (2016, Angela Duckworth) argues: Talent × effort = skill. Skill × effort = achievement. Effort counts twice - and grit, not genius, p…

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The Defining Decade

by Meg Jay · 2012 · 9 min read

Clinical psychologist Meg Jay pushes back against the culture of extended adolescence: treating the twenties as a throwaway decade costs real compounding. Weak ties (not close friends) are where jobs and partners come from; identity capital, small forward inve

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Grit

by Angela Duckworth · 2016 · 8 min read

Duckworth - MacArthur 'genius grant' psychologist, ex-McKinsey, ex-teacher - spent years asking why some people achieve wildly more than equally talented peers. Her answer, validated from West Point's brutal Beast Barracks to the National Spelling Bee: GRIT, t

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Read The Defining Decade if you want why your twenties matter, and how to make the most of them now. thirty

Read Grit if you want the power of passion and perseverance - why effort counts twice and ta

The honest order for most readers: start with Grit for the base, then go deeper with the other. Both summaries are free, no paywall, in 26 languages.

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